Introduction
Basic Thought Process|
Why do people act the way they do? What is behind their actions? Or what is the reason for their habits. Let us understand the real reason behind all of this.
THOUGHTS ----> WORDS
Anil’s subconscious mind has already recorded the thought process in your mind. However, what do you do with it? He manifests those thoughts to words automatically. In his day to day life, he keeps talking to himself about these thoughts. He constantly expresses these thoughts either to himself or to others. The reason being that these words eventually are always there in the back of his mind, and they find their way out as he speaks these thoughts out.
WORDS ----> ACTION
Anil does know that one of his cousins is quite successful and Anil decides to go over and take his advice. His cousin tells him that after graduation he did his Business Administration course and got a job in a multi-national company. After working for several years he finally left the job and started his own business. Again here Anil realizes that in order to succeed he must complete his MBA course. He soon collects the required information and starts studying for the MBA course. In this Anil is taking action over his earlier words of becoming rich. These words get transformed into action that is the reason your parents wanted you to speak constructive and positively.
ACTION ----> HABIT
Every action over a period of time becomes a habit. Many people are identified with their habits either good or bad. You find many people saying “It is his habit to work hard” or “It is his habit to come late” and so on and so forth.
Anil our main character is always seen studying for his exams late in the night. He leaves no stone unturned in getting all the available information for his MBA examination. This action soon turns into a habit of working hard. Actually an inner drive to achieve his dream of becoming rich and wealthy.
HABIT ----> CHARACTERISTIC
Every habit is finally reflected as a characteristic of the person that identifies the person. Moreover, this characteristic is a clear reflection of the thought process of any individual.
A person thinks or makes decision in this basic way. And it is these thoughts that make or break a person. And through graphology we can observe the very thought process of the individual. There can be one thought and many fallouts from this thought. These fallouts, at times people feel are characteristics, but actually we as graphologists read only the thought while people feel we tell them the characteristic.
So now we understand that behind every action or characteristic, the real driving force is the thought. It is a well-known fact that graphology reveals the characteristic from his handwriting and signature, but as we have seen above actually when we talk about characteristics, somewhere in the core we are always referring to the basic thought, THE SUBCONSCIOUS THOUGHT. My friends through graphology we are going to read the thoughts of a person of which characteristics will be the fallouts and the person who can derive these fallouts in a logical and sequential manner with a human touch to it will be able to analyse handwritings accurately.
Uses/ Advantages of Graphology
1.Understanding Your Own Self: What are you at this present juncture in your life? Right from your childhood, to your present age you go through a variety of experiences, some good, some bad and these eventually form your personality. Knowing oneself, and improving on your negative aspects could be one of the biggest advantages you can have through the study of graphology. One act that you unfailingly carry out every day is to look at yourself in the mirror, but one that will reveal your personal thoughts, your subconscious mind.
2.Child Development: In today’s world with excessive competition and limited seats in schools and colleges, parents literally impose themselves on the child, without giving any consideration to the child’s desires and wants. Here Graphology can help in a very big way in understanding the child and the parents and helping them out. Also, child delinquency can be detected at a very early stage and the children given due guidance to become better citizens for tomorrow.
3. Criminology: Graphology can assist the police department in solving crimes related to burglary, theft and even murders. After any particular case the police has many a suspect on their hands, but it may take a long time for them to determine the real thief or murderer. At this stage Graphology can play a vital role in finding out the real culprit just by his writing script and signature. Hence, in a certain way Graphology can save a lot of time in solving such cases.
4.Recruitment: In most of the companies in India, the basic procedure to appoint a person is by inviting applications and recruiting him/her through direct interviews. But this may or may not provide an insight into the person and the way he thinks.
Consider a situation where a person is being appointed wherein he has to make high level decisions. Though academically he may be excellent, it in no way implies that he can take sound decisions. And this decision-making ability can be detected in a major way through the writing and that too within fraction of seconds. Again if the person is not duty bound, is dishonest or may involve in day to day politics can all be detected through Graphology. In fact it is also possible to segregate people and give them specific jobs as per their thought process. For example, an extrovert with the requisite qualification could be appointed in the marketing field, where he loves meeting people and can express himself clearly, whereas an introvert could be given more work in the planning department and so on and so forth.
5. Selecting a life partner/ Understanding your life partner: There is always a difference between a ‘boyfriend’ material and a husband material. Before marriage many boys promise the moon and the stars to the girl, but after marriage, the girls find out that the only thing they can see are stars in front of their eyes due to overworking! Many couples before marriage normally meet for not more than four hours. In this time both of them put their best foot forward and try to please each other. But after marriage things are drastically different, which either of them realize in a difficult way. Graphology can assist in a major way in giving the person the true picture of his partner and hence selecting the right partner.
If you are one of those unfortunate immortals who have already taken the plunge have faith, because help is on its way! After reading this book one can still try and understand the spouse and iron out the differences if any.
6.Selecting a business partner: As important it is for you to select a life partner, equally important it is for you to select the correct business partner (if you do decide to start a business with any other person). You can get to know the mindset of the person immediately and that itself can help you in taking the right decision.
Limitations of Graphology
Just as any science is not perfect, graphology has its own limitations.
1.Sex Determination: Graphology cannot detect the sex of the person as many males have feminine traits and vice-versa.
2.Age Determination: Graphology represents the mind for that matter we can have a matured sixteen year old teenager and we can have an immature sixty year old person.
3.The person is right or left handed: The person could be either left handed or right handed, but the source being the same i.e. the brain it is impossible to detect which of his hand has he used for his writing.
4.Nationality: Graphology cannot reveal the nationality of the individual. Certain handwritings can provide an indication about the origin or the country of the person, but graphology as a science cannot detect the nationality.
5.Caste, creed & religion: Again it is not possible to detect the caste, creed or the religion of the person from the writing of the individual.